Winter has ended and?Spring has begun.? And?you know what that means:?spring cleaning, flowers blooming, and of course, the arrival of the Easter Bunny.? But who can think of Spring without thinking of weddings and June brides? As Spring progresses, the Signature Grande in Davie will begin hosting bridal shows consisting of numerous wedding vendors, to help the bride and groom make their special day even more memorable.?
One question often asked by those who are about to ?tie the knot? is how can they make their marriage last? What?s the ?secret? to marriage? What are the ?do?s and don?ts?? Although the last time I checked, a book revealing any ?secrets? or the ?do?s and don?ts? to marriage wasn?t handed out before saying ?I do?.? There are beliefs, recommendations, and philosophies pertaining to relationships that are not only quite noteworthy, but also seem to be right on the money. ??These are the things that your family and friends may not ever tell you.? Listed below is the best advice for making your relationship work: ?
1) The characteristics which attracted you to your partner in the beginning are the ones which will drive you crazy as your relationship progresses.
2) Having realistic expectations of your significant other and/or relationship is the key for the relationship to endure. Unrealistic expectations often result in feeling disappointed which in turn can create pent up anger and resentment.
3) Acceptance of your partner?s personality is essential.? The relationship will probably not last if you?re unable to accept them, flaws and all.? Acceptance doesn?t mean that you like everything about them, but that you?re acknowledging how they think and act.???
4) In reality, love and relationships do not parallel those depicted in books, television, and/or the movies.? If you?re searching for a relationship similar to the one portrayed in the book and movie ?The Notebook? just remember this: ?The Notebook? was written as fiction as and therefore was only intended for entertainment purposes.?
5) By not saying anything about something that bothers you, you are telling the other person that whatever has been said and/or done is acceptable to you. No one can read your mind and therefore, the behavior will continue unless you say something to stop it.
6) Avoiding issues only creates more tension and stress within a relationship.? Issues will not miraculously resolve by themselves.? It takes both people within the relationship to work through them.? By sweeping issues under the carpet, all that you have in the end is a huge pile in the middle of your living room.?
7) Regardless of how long you?re in a relationship with someone or how much they love you, they?ll never be able to read your mind.? If you need their help or want them to do something, you need to ask them.?
There will be some days when you?ll look at your partner and think ?I?m the luckiest person in the world? and other days when you?ll think ?oh no, what did I get myself into??
9) It?s just as important to tend to needs of each individual as it is to tend to the needs of the couple. ?Since it takes two people to make a couple, if one person isn?t functioning at 100%, i.e.: not satisfied with their life, career, or relationship, it will have a significant effect on the couple.?
10) All couples fight ? it?s how ?you fight that matters.? When you fight, you still care.? Don?t worry if you?re fighting, worry when you stop.?
These may seem easy in theory, but putting them into practice may not be so simple.? ?Although we may not realize it, relationships are hard and take work.? As you go through the trials and tribulations in your relationship remember that?relationships?are?the hardest thing that we will ever work at in our lives.? But a good one makes all the effort worth it.?
Article source: http://www.examiner.com/relationships-in-fort-lauderdale/best-relationship-advice-what-friends-and-family-won-t-tell-you
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